Sitting in the hunting stand, the herd of deer moves in. All the does start showing up and then, bringing up the rear and showing up last, you have the majestic buck.
The buck runs the show. The buck shows intelligence and leadership in the way he operates. The females get to eat first, but they also ensure there isn’t danger lurking for him when he shows up.
There is some kind of wisdom in slowing down and not rushing into everything.