It’s an interesting dichotomy when you consider that the more you want to be successful at something, the more likely you are to let the pressure push you into a mistake.
The baseball closer who doesn’t care about winning the game will close the most games and be successful. The nerves don’t affect him and he performs.
The basketball player who makes the clutch shot has to be OK with the ball rimming out as well. As a result, he makes a lot of those shots.
You’re better than you think. Don’t let the pressures affect you and you do that by not caring if you win or lose. You put in the work and the results will show.
Nobody wins all the time and if you’re comfortable with that, you start winning more often.