Those who are obedient always see themselves as virtuous rather than cowardly. I read that somewhere a while ago and it’s an interesting idea.
I have to disagree with the line of thinking that ends with obedience being the mark of cowardice. You may be obedient because you believe it is the morally upright thing to do. You may value the order that comes with obedience. You may see some greater end which you’re willing to sacrifice present comforts/wants to attain.
I do agree with this assessment when falling in line and being obedient is done for selfish ends. “It’s easier to not question the expectations or the narrative so I’ll get in line and shut up.” That is cowardice.
When people who are “obedient” put themselves forward as being virtuous, it’s likely a big flashing light that they’re just a coward.
I think that it's far more likely that the true motive of the obedient person tells the real story. If only we could see the real motives of the people all around us…