Stop being angry about everything. It tires people out and they don’t care about you or what you have to say.
When everybody wins, nobody really wins. You all just get a shiny medal thing for showing up and playing. That’s not winning, that’s participating.
Along the same lines, when all you do is yell at or berate your employees or colleagues, you never really yell at them and nothing you say will get a rise out of your peers.
They just tune you out and you’re the jerk. You get angrier and angrier, but you’re still droning on and yelling about everything. Nobody cares and you’ve lost their ear.
When everything is the "biggest problem ever" and you scream and yell about everything, nobody listens. The solution is calmness.
Your calmness makes your anger more valuable and people will respond more appropriately to you, and they’ll probably enjoy being around you as well.